Dont compare yourself with others

How do you measure your life is matters alot. Just Enjoy your own life without comparing it with that of another.

In life,Sometimes we started comparing ourselves with others,but forget that everyone is different and have different capabilities and abilities.Not everyone is same,Many have different perspectives and views.And there views sometimes affected you when uh start comparing yourself with others.

If you took the strengths of others, and compared them to your weaknesses, how do you think you’d size up? And do you think this would make you feel good?

The funny thing is, this is what most of us do at one time or another — and some of us do pretty often.

Let’s say I take a look at someone who creates amazing artwork and I look at my art and video skills, and realize that I don’t come close to measuring up. In fact, I look pretty pitiful.

But wait a minute: it’s not a fair comparison. Just because I don’t measure up doesn’t mean I should get out it or that I should get depressed or jealous or resentful. Instead, if I looked at my strengths — writing useful and honest posts — I can see that I have a lot to offer, a lot to be happy about.

And that’s so important — being able to look at your own strengths, and see your true value. It’s actually one of the keys to success, because without this ability, you will be unmotivated, and won’t believe in yourself.

Just try to be aware of when you start comparing yourself to others … once you’ve developed this awareness, try this trick and stop yourself. Tell yourself, “Stop that!

“Dont let their actions influence your goals”

And then start thinking about all the things you DO have, the things you love, the people you have, the blessings that life has given you. Make this a regular practice, and you’ll start to be happier with your life.

  • Even if you compare strength to strength, there will always be those who are better, and those who are worse. Where you are on the ladder of accomplishments or purchases has nothing to do with what you want to do.
  • Even if you do well in comparison with others, you may be artificially inflated from this comparison. It’s a short-lived boost of ego if you win the comparison — easily knocked down.
  • You end up resenting others for doing well, without really knowing the true person. You can see this if you’ve ever resented someone upon first meeting them, and then later realized you got the wrong idea.

Just break the habit of comparing yourself with others.

As said by one of poet “To love is to stop comparing.” â€“ 

A people will judge you anyway,dont live your life impressing others.Live your life impressing yourself.

#live your life#

#Stop comparing yourselves with others#

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